012 people
Co-counselling
Equal time, mutual attention, no expert in the room.
- Formation
- browse
- Consent
- mutual
- Rhythm
- recurring
Relationship infrastructure
Give relationships a shape before asking people to enter them.
Pactloom helps a community define how people find one another, consent, meet, pause and leave—without turning their private relationship into content for a platform.
01JoinScoped identity
02ConnectExplicit consent
03MeetShared rhythm
04Leave wellPause · end · block
The premise
Most platforms organise content.
Pactloom organises consent.
Posts, files and events can live elsewhere. The thing Pactloom keeps coherent is the agreement between people: who may connect, what both accepted, when they meet, and how either person can stop.
Starting patterns
One engine, different human arrangements.
022 people
Language exchange
Half your language, half mine.
- Formation
- suggested
- Consent
- mutual
- Rhythm
- recurring
032 people
Accountability pair
Make the next step visible to someone who will ask.
- Formation
- browse
- Consent
- mutual
- Rhythm
- fixed-term
042 people
Mentoring
Experience offered without taking away agency.
- Formation
- suggested
- Consent
- mutual
- Rhythm
- fixed-term
052 people
Random coffee
A small reason to cross an existing boundary.
- Formation
- random
- Consent
- automatic
- Rhythm
- one-off
063–6 people
Study pod
A small circle that notices whether everyone is keeping up.
- Formation
- assigned
- Consent
- mutual
- Rhythm
- fixed-term
Product constitution
The relationship belongs to its participants.
Configuration can change the shape of a programme. It cannot remove the basic dignity of the people inside it.
- 01Consent is state, not copy.
The software records what was accepted and requires fresh consent when the agreement materially changes.
- 02Exit is always available.
Every relationship supports unilateral pause, end, block and personal-data deletion.
- 03Privacy follows the relationship.
Organisers see programme health, not the private substance of meetings.
- 04Risk is not a theme colour.
Sensitive programmes receive stricter defaults; unsafe combinations are rejected rather than politely warned about.
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